When They Say “I Turned Out Just Fine”

We’ve all heard this argument before.

“Well my parents โœจinsert harmful parenting practice hereโœจ and I turned out just fine.”

Let’s look a little closer. Because did they really? What does “fine” look like as a functioning adult anyways?

Here is just a small list of the issues that can result from unresolved childhood trauma.

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ Struggling with mental illness, most commonly anxiety/depression

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ Feelings of low self worth

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ Difficulties forming or maintaining healthy relationships

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ Inability to communicate or process feelings

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ Unable to advocate for their needs

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ Repeating toxic cycles created from generational trauma

If you are struggling with any of these, you may not be as “fine” as you believe yourself to be. And the best way forward is to look inward, examine why you struggle the ways that you do, and learn how you can do better for your children.

And don’t we want better for our kids than just “fine” anyways?

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